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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 7/5/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Highlighting Highlights (June 2024) - Topic of the day 7/5/24
this is a great idea
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 7/5/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Highlighting Highlights (June 2024) - Topic of the day 7/5/24
true!
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 7/5/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Highlighting Highlights (June 2024) - Topic of the day 7/5/24
i lean toward "anything that's based on voting is gonna be a little fraught, at least for some people, but that's not a reason to get rid of it"
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 7/5/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Highlighting Highlights (June 2024) - Topic of the day 7/5/24
that seems like a huge leap from the initial point
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 7/5/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Highlighting Highlights (June 2024) - Topic of the day 7/5/24
it does make posting a fit feel more idk. something to me, but I don't think that's a reason to get rid of it
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•Created by lynn/lyon on 5/6/2024 in #questions-and-advice
T-boy brand recs?
ooh i love this
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•Created by lynn/lyon on 5/6/2024 in #questions-and-advice
T-boy brand recs?
(for reference I have ~30" waist and ~41" hips, most recent purchase were J Crew chinos and I like the fit)
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•Created by lynn/lyon on 5/6/2024 in #questions-and-advice
T-boy brand recs?
I keep getting fed ads for both& and honestly... there clothes seem pretty meh and quite expensive for what they are. Plus pretty restrictive sizing (pants only come in 28L, for example)
My M.O. to this point has been to care more about style than brand -- straight or athletic fits have worked fairly well for me, though i'm constantly experimenting with it
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 4/23/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Insecurities - Topic of the day 4/23/24
Yeah, this place has always felt welcoming! I appreciate you all
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 4/23/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Insecurities - Topic of the day 4/23/24
i still get self-conscious about the shopping part of things tbh. I guess I don't feel like I "belong" either in fashion spaces or in men's spaces or what, idk
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 4/23/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Insecurities - Topic of the day 4/23/24
yeah, 100%. I just sometimes feel like a lot of men think women's friend groups are pretty monolithic but they vary a lot
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 4/23/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Insecurities - Topic of the day 4/23/24
eh, i think this very much depends on the friend group among women
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 4/23/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Insecurities - Topic of the day 4/23/24
I tried wearing a pair of leather boots to high school once and got made fun of for it (they were very loud and not very good boots)... so i stopped trying until much later
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 4/23/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Insecurities - Topic of the day 4/23/24
I have historically been extremely self-conscious, and I've tended toward boring basics for that reason. I think part of it is that I don't really like feeling noticed, and part of it is fear that I'll be seen as a "poser" or something. Not to mention gendered aspects of clothes being difficult for me to navigate. I've worked through a lot of it -- I wear patterns and colors now! -- but there's always work for me to do. I have at least one item in my closet I haven't worn yet because I'm scared people will think it looks stupid or something
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 3/27/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Trends - Topic of the day 3/27/24
ok, actually this might be a thing, interesting
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 3/27/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Trends - Topic of the day 3/27/24
although i guess lack of airflow?
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 3/27/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Trends - Topic of the day 3/27/24
that... doesn't sound real
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 3/27/2024 in #topic-of-the-day
Trends - Topic of the day 3/27/24
Following trends I like is good. Following trends I don't is bad
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•Created by Yodaguru on 2/15/2024 in #questions-and-advice
How do I become a man that people respect simply by the way I dress, and present myself?
Just hopping in to say: good on you for figuring out changes you want to make. As Billiams says, this sort of thing takes time and patience, but identifying things you want to change is a huge step in personal growth! Be kind to yourself while you figure things out
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•Created by ggfpc on 1/26/2024 in #fashion-discussion
Male fashion and sexyness
my husband has broad shoulders and big calves, he's very much a twink tho...
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