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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/17/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Trying too hard - Topic of the day 1/17/25

I can use more words

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/17/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Trying too hard - Topic of the day 1/17/25

You cannot tell

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/17/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Trying too hard - Topic of the day 1/17/25

I am insecure

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/17/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Trying too hard - Topic of the day 1/17/25

I think this is confirmation bias lol you are only noticing the people who obviously aren’t used to wearing what they’re wearing

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/17/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Trying too hard - Topic of the day 1/17/25

There’s confidence in your styling

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/17/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Trying too hard - Topic of the day 1/17/25

Some people dress to stand out and some to blend in. For example, AF1s are to blend in.

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/17/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Trying too hard - Topic of the day 1/17/25

Idk like willem dafoe maybe lol

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/17/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Trying too hard - Topic of the day 1/17/25

But at fashion weeks you can also see the people comfortable dressing in all designer and styled well, even more extravagantly than the people that look like they’re “trying too hard just for fashion week”

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/17/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Trying too hard - Topic of the day 1/17/25

I can’t pull that off lmao

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/17/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Trying too hard - Topic of the day 1/17/25

I don’t think trying too hard is a thing because who wouldnt want to try hard. However, when people say someone “looks like they’re trying too hard” it usually means someone is poorly styled to a point that a lot of the styling choices are noticed and noted as being not pleasing. For example, using accessories that don’t work like pocket squares and monocles in a business casual setting, or wearing a lot of clashing patterns in suiting. In itself, they may not look good, but if styled correctly, people wouldn’t be saying this person is trying too hard.

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/15/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

The Case For/Against the OCBD - Topic of the day 1/15/25

OCBDs may not be as versatile as everyone says they are but they still offer a way to dress up or down if you want to dress in a tailored style

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/15/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

The Case For/Against the OCBD - Topic of the day 1/15/25

But that’s with all shirt types too no?

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/15/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

The Case For/Against the OCBD - Topic of the day 1/15/25

Exactly, but it’s not right to say they never look good

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/15/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

The Case For/Against the OCBD - Topic of the day 1/15/25

Yeah you can definitely look cool in an OCBD and some cool dressers definitely rock the OCBD

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/15/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

The Case For/Against the OCBD - Topic of the day 1/15/25

Like all shirt styles they are good in some situations and work less in other situations

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/15/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

The Case For/Against the OCBD - Topic of the day 1/15/25

Like all of these that were sent have a tie and lean ivy due to maybe the choice of tie

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 1/15/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

The Case For/Against the OCBD - Topic of the day 1/15/25

I do think that OCBDs work best with Ivy adjacent fits though and are less versatile than what many people make us think

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•Created by Benji on 1/14/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Sweater Advice

I don’t have an answer since I don’t live in the cold but my gut says no

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•Created by Benji on 1/14/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Sweater Advice

Yeah the MHL one is much cuter

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•Created by Benji on 1/14/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Sweater Advice

Both are fairly easy to pair with regular jeans

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