Male Fashion and Sexyness - Topic of the day 7/17/24
What do you wear when you want to feel sexy? And to expand on this,why do you want to feel sexy? We quite often advise against dressing for the purpose of attracting the desired sex, but isn't that what dressing sexy is all about? Consider the fact that the person writing this is a devil's advocate before you lambast him for posing this question.
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art...
The key to being sexy is rolling up your sleeves
/thread
I wear a lot of cologne
Not too many clothes
alright I considered you're a devil's advocate
art you still suck
I feel sexy also when I wear safe outfits that k always feel comfortable in
im gay
hi gay
Fair
Gay people can’t dress sexy
whatever k-pop idols wear since that industry has maximized the male/female gaze (im half serious)
hi daddy 🤤
Rick Owen's
i didn't realize my arms looked good until i started wearing tank tops and people started commenting on it. so it kinda went in reverse for me. got that twink swimmer build
Im Joking by the way
i took it seriously iral 🤝
I said I’d steer clear of this one but nvm. Feeling „sexy“ as a big guy is weird. I feel sexy when I look in the mirror and see more of the person I’m working towards rather than where I am right now I guess. For me that has to do with my looks feeling comfortable, as well as „flattering“.
(note: rick sexiness is automatically cancelled out if you're less than 5'10)
Nooo your so sexy …
anyway I think the image you give is sexier than the amount of skin you show. on men specially.
noooo please don't kill yuorself ur too sexy ahaha.. ..
haha what if u sent a sexy pic
jk .. unless?
my real answer is that i feel sexy when i wear things my partner thinks are sexy which is mostly workwear with tucked tees and boots
I'm going to take this seriously give me a sec
Yeah please send sexy pics everyone
i carry my paddle around on weekends when i have practice and i unironically feel hot asf carrying a big stick around
And I’ll tell you if you’re sexy or not
This is not to say I feel sexy when I look skinny in the mirror. It’s about being comfortable where I’m at.
I dont know if i ever feel sexy but sometimes i feel kinda hunky
i also find my personal sexiness meter depends much more on grooming and hygene than it does Putting That Shit On
yeah i feel sexy when i feel put together
Egg may be joking but he isn't wrong that K-pop has figured out how to monetize this
yup
it isn't showing skin either
kpop is mostly selling the husband material image
like a lot of people think suits are sexy and suits arent showing skin
we got badboys and we got nice happy boyfriend who smells like fresh lavender
i cackled
like u wouldn't wear stage outfits
but idols get dressed all the time
by their stylist (to fulfill sponsorships also)
I think this is probably my most 'conventionally' sexy outfit but for me personally it didn't feel that way because this isn't really me, it was essentially a costume I put on for the fit battle.
speak for yourself
jk I can't afford that shit
:hell:
certain groups have certain vibes and then individual members have their own perferences or curated images
so im sure if you actually made an effort to dig into kpop there's a shiton of inspo
Its really not that expensive outside of the massive groups
I feel much more sexy when I wear something like this because it's truer to who I am and gives me more confidence, even though it doesn't immediately read as 'sexy'
most smaller groups can't afford designer or anything
hubba hubba
I should be more specific but BTS would be good to look at
tbh this prompt has me thinkin hard because a part of my reasons for putting shit on is genuinely to be attractive. But the people i want to attract = all. But I'm also in a closed relationship so the goal isn't attracting people for any specific reason. So why is that a goal? Idk I probably like the feeling of power ig!
Very different styles
I just like walkin around town with my trader joes bag lookin cute as hell because it makes my dopamine go
I think sexy is just mental tbh
But I'm also being reductive
I believe that is what we call a 'skill issue'
the knowledge that ur tj bag has caused a rift in at least one relationship is enough to sustain u I feel that
I have a similar thing where to me confidence is the core of it, which is a bit of a cop out but feeling like you are hitting your vibe perfectly is like the core. Like these two are some of my favorites
im just vain, its great
you look like a sexy gary oldman
came from the man himself smh
like this shows more skin but like, its more of a lazy hot day outfit. Its not bad, but its not the exact same feeling
so similar feeling to art
Rick Owens (2016): "Being short is a skill issue"
nevermind this is when I was the sexiest because I'm smoking and smoking is the sexiest thing a person can do
Sleeves? rolled
Smoke? ing
Man I wish smoking wasn’t unhealthy and smelled bad and wasn’t expensive because it looks hella cool
meirl
+1 for art's statement about authenticity - first fit was put together by my partner based on what she finds attractive and it's much more cohesive yet it felt like a costume so i didn't feel sexy at all.
Second fit is simple and true to me and I felt like a million bucks in it.
I hate that smoking made a resurgence, its grim
Killed my uncle
it's weed guys
don't worry
perfectly harmless
good for you, even
phew
it's like drinking a smoothie
Well as long as you aren't smoking 20 a day
And if you are.. THEY KNOW THEY ALL KNOW THEY ARE COMING THROUGH THE WALLS
Dare i say cigarettes are much sexier than weed
forbidden fruit
Weird what a few billion pounds and decades of marketing can do
just wait until the timmy chal bob dylan movie comes out, everybody going to switch back from vapes to cigs
Fewer batteries in the trash at least
Imagine getting mugged by the guys on the left with their stone island patches
Cuz it looks like suckin dick
Go on a smoke break with a candy cig and then just eat it
Wait yall are so in denial that smoking is sexy
Long and skinny cigs are hot
Sure it’s from 50s marketing
You know what else is hot in western cultures? Sun tanning. Which also gives you cancer
Double standard much???
I used to work part time reporting. You only ever really feel like a journalist when you’re smoking.
I grew up with basically everyone smoking. The smell is vile as a former smoker, maybe it looks good on social media
I live with a smoker and we fight on the smell weekly
Oh yeah our across the hall neighbors smoke inside its awful
Smoking discourse
Wish it didn’t kill ya
But it does
I remember when they blanket banned indoor smoking in Ireland, that was a wild few months of people trying to find loopholes
Smoking to look cool: expensive, smells bad, kills you
Drinking glasses of red wine to look cool: pretty cheap if you got no standards, made of fruit, maybe you live forever??
my big gripe is that the smell gets on my clothes that are hung to dry
and she complains of my complaints
🤦♂️
Ewww that sucks
Red wine doesn’t get you zonked tho :nooooo: :nooooo:
But yeah probably a terrible idea to indulge in any substances just to look cooler or sexier
oof
smoking w a comically long cigarette holder and reading the newspaper
now thats sexy
more the reading the newspaper part tbh
as someone who did not have a great self-image until very recently bc obese it took a while to grapple with the idea a) of being sexy and b) being physically desirable in dress. i think it's further compounded by being a gay man, where (if you're looking) how you are considered desirable and what one would consider desirable exist on a similar plane
i've come to associate sexiness with confidence and with ease, and that tends to come about more in a fit on the top vs on the bottom
your veins are wild zeo
nurses dream
yeah and see that's another thing - the veins frequently come up a lot and while many would deem that as something desirable or attractive or a sign that i'm shredded i don't necessarily always think that way
I don't think high vascularity equates to being shredded
I know a lot of people who have great arms but cores are lacking
smoking is sexy, when I quit my sex appeal dropped like 17% and I can feel it
sorry is it the top or the bottom fits where you feel most confident
top = more confident
ooooo ok
Smoking wore u
Smoking is sexy objectively but smelling like shit isn't sexy
also not being able to taste anything ughhhh
i don't either but some of the response i get when bearing arms suggest otherwise. it's largely not intentional and i don't feel objectified it's just i don't see it for me
And being broke
also just the willingly giving yourself cancer
nah I made it look good
It's fashionable when you're young
Okay but this is something I genuinely don’t understand I had no problem tasting things
Looks ass when you're old and wrinkly still addicted
I plan to pick up smoking again when I’m like 65
I smoke a ton of weed so I have no grounds to stand on
hmmmm maybe it's like cilantro soap gene idk but when I quit I noticed my sense of taste improve dramatically
Okkkk 👀
smoking is also one of those things with optics dictated by class: i.e. classy if you're rich, trashy if you're poor
smoking cigars vs smoking cigs
actually I feel due to manosphere cringe fuckers cigars are less cool than they've ever been
I'm part Cuban so cigars are my culture /hj
I have also been smoking since I was 14 so it may have something to do with many foods I was only exposed to after starting to smoke
Idk I started at 16 lmao
Im uk/ireland so I constantly have to NOT use our word for cigarettes around Americans
But back to the topic of sexiness, I feel like attracting the desired sex with my drip has also made members of the same sex (men) aggro towards me
It's happened my entire life both on and off the internet
Yeah thats absolutely a thing
yep
smoking looks hot on the internet bc I can't smell it
No I totally feel these even tho my desired sex is all, I always get aggro dudes
If I'm being honest it happens to me in here 💀
Where do we land on smoking pipes?
Your swag too different, they'll kill you Spongedamb
It's definitely a novelty but can be sexy depending on whose using it (you look sexy)
Higher difficulty, but you're nailing it
this looks like a scene from letterkenny I'm sorry
u look good tho
It's the sneak dissing/attempts at clowning for me
This looks like County Letterkenny so
Not far off, this was on Skye
Pipes are cool cuz Gandalf smoked pipes thems the rules
but yeh I haven't even touched it in maybe two years or so, it was only ever an occasional weekend thing
Thought this was a picture of ted at his cabin for a sec
LOL
People think they look like tolkein but really look insufferable
hit me with the real truth
don't hold back
Tolkein was likely at least a bit insufferable im willing to bet
Dude is a hyper nerd
Fit challenge: looks sexy smoking a bong
Also the GOAT tho
this photo just called me ten-ply
disagreeing politely in Ursula. K. le Guin
I would never
Also had to google that one to figure out what it meant
From what I’ve read, everyone liked him a lot irl and that made CS Lewis even more jealous
See also: Octavia Butler
I feel very similar to holfram on this one, my weight has given me some extremely hard to deal with body issues and seeing myself as sexy is not really something i can do at this point in my life. I have come to a point though where i feel stylish and happy in my outward appearance which i guess is the first step to sexy enlightenment
CS Lewis was a chump
The Lewis/Tolkien frenemy saga is hilarious i want a period comedy show of them
Digs your fits are great and I wish I had the confidence you do to post them
To give a serious answer here after diverting it to tolkien somehow (not helping on the us as experts of male sexiness allegations here)
I would agree with what was said by many other people earlier, mainly Ian I think. A lot of stuff that makes me feel confident in that way are things that my partner finds attractive. And to echo what Art said those things also feel authentic to myself which probably only further helps with the confidence etc
I think they were genuinely good friends, but I also think that if you’re a creative and your bff works in the same medium as you then you’re going to be competitive
Thank you i really appreciate that! I feel like ive made a lot of strides in working on myself which feels very rewarding to me.
The best thing I ever did was just accepting that I can look good and be stylish without having to change my body necessarily.
Yah very much agree.
Echoing digs and eurodigs.
I wrote yesterday that my style has gotten better just by posting in WAYWT, but I think it has also come with a lot of confidence. Learning how to look my best has sort of gotten me out of my head and made me feel great about who I am.
It always surprises me by what other people think looks hot on me compared to my.. not explicitly going for sexy as a vibe.
The westernwear stuff in moderation is apparently catnip
And with that confidence/comfort in my own skin has led to feeling alot better in other ways including feeling a lot sexier
I've personally felt more body confident after I started lifting, I was strictly a cross country runner before I got into kettlebells in 2020 after a hip injury
I also think that forcing myself to have a big smile in my waywt photos has helped me somehow lol
But my skincare routine has also helped me feel more sexi
Obviously it’s hard to feel sexy when I look nothing like what’s „supposed to be sexy“. But that doesn’t mean I can’t feel good about myself.
I went the other way, was doing great on the weights for a lanky fuck, then tore my rotator cuff and its back to running!
This one is for my big boys of MFAD
Yah western wear tends to get me the most compliments which i also dont totally understand
Deciding to smile in my fit pics decidedly increased reacts and more importantly how much I liked the photos once I got over the initial weirdness
I take most of my pics at 6am, I am not smiling for those lol
Sorry to hear that 😩 how'd you injure yourself? Barbell?
my friend did her master's thesis on him and apparently cs Lewis got so sick of going on walks with Tolkien cause he stopped to look at every single plant that he started making their younger friends go on walks with him instead
Someone smarter than me can probably explain how it ties into a certain kind of rugged masculine thing.
I just like how the buttons go pop 🙂
Tolkien ruining the hot girl walk by being the biggest fucking nerd
my actual hero
It’s weird sometimes. I get the most compliments on stuff that’s a bit more fitted than what I usually like. Tbf I have a low tolerance for what I consider too tight.
dumbell flys, overextended...
looking at plants on walks is sexy
Boot slip on no tying 🤷🏼♂️
what i find funny, is that you, digs and I all have smoke shows of partners lmao
"Sorry ma'am the boots stay ON in bed"
tbh i think its in our heads
but actually, sexy is a state of mind and it's been fun to figure out where I feel sexiest outside of the "showing skin is sexy" mentality
I consider myself a personality hire in that department
Omg 😭😭
As always. Its swag
Swag all the way down
it always comes down to it
that charlie quote i swear
is the most real shit in this server
On the plus side, my other shoulder is still double jointed 😭
they've been gone for so long and yet, they are still spitting facts in here
I mean that's not an extremely unique take tbf
Its good, without being advice
i think its just a good reminder that we're all in our heads sometimes
This is how I feel about sexiness tbh. I mostly have only felt sexy in life and the times I’ve not felt sexy have been when I specifically have tried to dress to impress anyone besides myself
true
cant consume your way out of being swagless
Back when i was swagless i prioritized sexiness as like a primary factor when getting dressed to go out and now it is very much a low priority for me. But in dressing in way that makes me happier i have increased my confidence and become, therefore, sexier.
I feel sexy when I wear what I like. If I show skin and I like it then it’s sexy, if I don’t show skin and I like it, then it is still sexy.
In short if you are trying to dress sexy but feel like a dork, its gonna have the opposite effect
i remember when i was like 15 i read an article in gq that said women thinks it is sexy when men roll their shirt sleeves up to the elbow and this permanently changed my brain chemistry
I feel like a dork wearing a tie tbh
We all saw the same gq article i think lol
btw good topic today @artvandelayimporting or whoever came up with it
This is probably the sexiest I’ve felt
now im feelin sexy
yeah for me feeling sexy often happens when I feel the most chill as well as self-embodied in how I'm dressing, and the concept of trying hard to be sexy for an occasion or moment is feeling further and further away from me (also some gender stuff about all the effort women are supposed to put in to be considered sexy)
I feel negative sex appeal wearing formal wear
worldwide MFA activation moment
And I’m not showing anything here
strategically placed my forearm tattoos to hang halfway out when I roll my sleeves
Probably cause its uncomfortable ti you
Me when deciding placement for my chest tattoo
no it was every "Woman of reddit what do you find hot in men?" askreddit thread in 2013
:stonks:
that guy now almost certainly runs a youtube account called Real Fellas Fashion, and wears the too tight shirts
Also I cannot for the life of me figure out when discord lets my add a message to my photo and when it doesn’t. Sorry stork that, but it’s a whole different problem anyways
Love that for you 🙂
Hella
And the fucking backwards baseball cap
shit, hes gonna ba Alpha M
I hate wearing ballcaps backwards
eventually i realized the demographics of reddit were skewing those threads so unbelievably hard
this is what women want
I used to assume all Americans wore ball caps all the time, its just they wear them a Lot more than we do
Ash Ketchum ass accessory
there is also like. the weird trans angle to it because sometimes i’ll feel sexy in one way and not the other way. and then i get one-two punched by dysphoria
we get free ballcap from burger store
this is definitely the fate of every single esquire writer after their inevitable layoff
Its to hide the tiny bald eagle that lives in every americans hair
i will defend the baseball hat + pokémon method of accessorizing outfits to death with my life lmao that was a formative experience in learning how to put that shit on
i recently started wearing a ballcap after like 10+ years of not liking them much and I have to admit i do feel cooler
also ditto
I wear them but they make me look less cool (I need them for running)
you will enjoy the ballcap more if the hat you’re putting on is a ballcap you adore
just gonna throw this out there: does anyone actually want to attract someone who buys into prescriptive notions of what is sexy that are based entirely on shitty patriarchal and capitalist standards? Regardless of gender or sexual orientation, do you want to be with the person who that GQ article is about?
my head is absurdly big and also my hair
fuck no
no but also sometimes
the virgin
Just gonna say this. If i were single again i would want a potential partner to like the style i like, not some cosplay of a gq dude.
the chad
Nothing like a baddie saying "I love your style"
complicated answer. I think when you're young you have no idea what this kind of prescriptive sexiness means for finding a possible partner. some people never grow out of this mindset unfortunately hence this weird new form of misogyny where everything involving women is dei unless its sexual in nature
Ya but only if I like their style too
Well real recognize real I'm afraid
we know you don't have any baddies on your island
If she don't fw my swag she shops at forever21
I'm not sure how gender dysphoria compares to body dysmorphia in terms of how it feels or the societal pressure that is associated with it, but if our conversation above about bigger bodies has any relation then working through some of those feelings will have huge payoffs
If they aint willin to hit the bins with me they aint the one
Do you glove up for the bins or go at em raw
yeah absolutely. i know they’re related experiences for sure
hitting the bins raw is real romance
having both gender & body dysmorphia is fuckin stupid but I'm happy my solution has been "gain a bunch of weight and become a nasty gym rat"
don't get me wrong the dsymorphia is still there but at least now I can carry it
Ngl I wish any of the thrift stores near me had bins
REAL
This is like new game plus
Accidentally touching your crush’s hand (and a pile of shit) at the bins :letsfuckinggo: :letsfuckinggo:
I've been trying really hard to find something to say in this thread cuz I'm asexual so I have never ever dressed to attract anyone nor have i felt societal pressure to but i think other people like jawntanamo and meat (and others) put it best. it's rly about how self confident i feel in what i wear more than dressing for x group of people. i feel like my friends can tell when i feel confident vs when i don't and i noticed i mostly get irl compliments when i myself feel good
huge, and the confidence of this is sexy in itself
this is the funniest gender related joke anyone ever hit me with holy shit
digs a true ally
Dysphoria prepare to die edition
2 REAL LMAO
People engaged in fitness wouldn't have as much body dysmorphia if people were honest about being on HGH
in my case it was 'hm, maybe i'm not a man but i'm too large/masc to confidently transition so time to hop on test and become as huge as i possibly can'
that's so real so many fake natty influencers out there
in my bodybuilding phase was when i probably objectively looked the best to most people but i also felt the fucking worst
im natty and also I dont lift 💪
The gymfluencer space is doing untold damage to peoples brains
nah scratch that actually i don't think there's an objective best
ya now I only like girls who look like they can beat me up
It sucks cuz my gym is a regular spot for a handful of bodybuilders and they are so open about juicing, and online is all vague and obfuscate-y
real, unfortunately
Like it's not a secret
It shouldn't be!
i'll happily talk about my hormone use with anybody as will all the other people i know irl who are on it
it's just social media that fucking sucks so bad
I liked one bodybuilder account to support a friend and now my whole feed is ruined
it's a double edged sword of not telling people and causing skewed expectations and dysmorphia vs being open to people and them taking it as endorsement
I have high school students getting perms and taking creatine wishing they looked like Max Taylor lifts
Yeah it def can be, at least in my exp other gym members have been like "it can be super risky and you need to work with a doctor" etc
"i just wanna be a little toned like Chris Evans when he turns into Captain America"
that's probably the best response they could give yeah
the word toned puts me into a barbarian rage
I ducked immediately after sending that out of instinct
I was so convinced this was gonna be my halloween costume that year
biceps growing .5 an inch every time I hear toned
im gonna be out working today but I'll say one more thing. everyone who posts fit in here is sexy and thats a fact. 🫡
I don’t understand why people go to the gym for looks. I’ve recently started physical therapy for my slipped disc and I fully understand why it’s good for me.
But I cannot wrap my mind around how it’s fun.
Sounds like a good cheat code
it's fun because it makes the voices go away
Because when you look good you feel good or something like that
gym is fun for me because I like when spreadsheets change
Insert Rick quote
rick gotta be the least successful steroid user of all time
it's fun to push yourself physically and to actually see the fruits of your labor in the mirror and in the weightroom
sometime number go up sometime number go down but always number change
for some i will add, not all
Also hand calluses make me feel sexy
Hm, I understand y’all’s points somewhat. The main problem I have usually is that while my body is doing work my mind remains unchallenged and that makes the voices come rather than go lol
My soft baby hands make me feel sexy 🤺
mind/muscle connection is what keeps me locked in but that's a different convo imo
it only works if you blast Full Of Hell at eardrum-bursting volumes
That’s not what I was getting at but y’all get my point i think
ya im just joking lol
Part of it is they lose money if they are open about it
If I understand correctly what that is I get it. The most fun I’ve had was while doing kendo but that probably fucked my back fr this time and I’m not sure I’ll be able to go back.
this fr, its the corporate sponsors that are to blame here
gymshark is a fucking cancer
ad-tech strikes again
Yeah that's true, influencing is such a huge business and I always forget that lmao
also isn't it like a federal offence to use some steroids in the USA
Damn you did kendo? Cool
Do you still have the kendogi/hakama lol
Could go hard in a fit
dont...
Oh wait
Forgot you’re not Asian my b
america hates gender-affirming care of all types
yeah it's like, focusing fully on the muscle contractions/expansions. It's very easy for me to slip into that state where I'm fully focused on the movements and my bodys reactions but it's not like that for everyone!
I'm looking at YOU Kumail Nanjiani
I like that Rob McElhenney is honest about his steroid usage
Not in any competitive manner mind you, but it’s a sport where body and mind are both challenged/occupied by correct form and stuff and that was just right for me. Also yelling makes mind go empty.
Just assume anyone who makes money off their body is using steroids
He wasn't wrong 🙈
Actors, influencers, athletes
Ozempic is a steroid ? Dang
Kinda wish I did martial arts or something
everyone laugh at this joke now because I'm going to delete it because I fear the road someone could choose to take us down
My coordination is terrible
Never too late
You still can!! Coordination is a skill that has to be learned like anything else
Better late than never
True
It’s pretty spendy tho 😭
my parents did martial arts for the first time in their 40s so ya it's never too late
What isn't in this economy
Trueee
$20 for two rolls of sushi rn
Kms
I’ll just get a mop and go to the park and study the blade
now that's sexy
^ hes asexual and even he knows its sexy. its gotta be
I have this so I’m set
ur lord of the rings looks weird
Studying the blade is sexy
mood tho. i fucking followed one (1) queer fitness coach and suddenly my explore page is trying to throw gym bros at me
do u think miyamoto musashi also stops to look at every plant on their walk
guaranteed
Tolkien and Miyamoto would have been legendary besties
(sorry not sorry cs Lewis you can take a plant-less hike)
i wish someone looked at me like tolkien looks at cool plants
what if the cool plants are looking at you like that
Mf shoulda taken the hint when talking trees turned out to be cooler than talking lions
damn...
Ngl tho fencing/hema seem super fun
do you follow the buff lumberjack lady too?
what about the buff lumberjack guy? the comments are wild haha
actually they both have the same comments
He feels very manosphere adjacent I hate the vibe
I thought that too but he's not, he had a video calling all that shit out
Oh hell yeah haha
I support chopping wood
uhhh one of them is an old-style bodybuilder whose reels are primarily feats of strength (ie, ripping a stack of cards in half and then quartering them, or bursting a rubber water jug with nothing but their own breath), and the other is a butch lesbian who gives guides to bulk up in ways that can help target areas of the body that give dysphoria or to prep for a surgery and also just to get better endurance
lemme look and see specifics
It’s so extra when it’s raining super hard and his suspender straps are undone and he’s screaming with every strike but y’know I get it
Lizard brain neurons activating and all that
Yep exactly
Or when he gets nerdy talking about different axe head shapes
i'm just happy he's having fun
To go back to being serious for a moment i think its important to remember that sexiness is such a nebulous idea that its a fool’s errand to try and somehow min max it based of some kind of societal standard. People are so varied in what they like and find attractive that they only thing that truly makes sense is to be authentic to yourself
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder or something like that
H2o lean same thing
Yah i could just said that forehead
but what pants do I need
skirt
Sigh andrew pants
Hot take I bought Andrews chinos and I think I hate them
Oof
do not feel sexy wearing those
This is swag
Take notes
I like Andrews cords, but the chinos suck imo
No yeh I have a pair of cords and I love em so I get this
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found em
On the topic of sexy garms….
The right leather jacket is always sexy
There is no one jacket to rule them all, but idc who you are if you got a leather jacket that looks good on, you look sexy
I was in great pain when I found out he lives in my hometown
andrews chinos are great to cut off and turn into cute lil shorts
Theres a guy on reels that instagram keeps trying to show me and he just does get ready vids but with closeups of him putting cologne on his forearms
Then the comments are just deranged
oh this is a great idea, thank you beans
the buff lumberjack lady is way hotter/more cool
Getting in this a bit late, apologies: So what im getting is that for most of y'all being sexy is very linked to feeling like yourself?
To me that totally tracks, because when i dress in a way that I assume is sexy I very much don't feel like myself and its more of a fun little role I play.
Which makes sense, because im asexual and all that :xd:
I literally once had a friend who told me that they find basically everyone at least low key hot. Then they paused and said "well, on second thought, i don't think I find you hot" 🤣
Its a very nebulous term and I think this topic was meant to explore it you know
Totally
Obviously people find wildly different things attractive across the entire spectrum
I have noticed
The goal was to get people talking
i think this is when i felt the hottest, and it's also my favorite fit i've worn—probably not a coincidence as other ppl here have mentioned
Heels so good on u
I think a lot of "feeling sexy" is having a Clark Kent vibe. Like you have a secret beneath this careful exterior you're showing to the world. And I think a person can do that in myriad ways. I get how showing more skin can be hinting at the secret beneath, but I still think traditional clothing can do it too. I don't think showing skin should be inherently sexualized, of course, but if that's the intention, it certainly works too.
this is v hot
i barely crack average height so heels are nice
very few chances to wear them since my walk to campus is like 15 hill-filled minutes
This is such a banger
it's mostly recent helmut lang which is surprising
Chat is it worth it to scroll up
Yeah this was a good one
Well at least I learned a bit about steroids