i.am.the.honored.one
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•Created by i.am.the.honored.one on 1/21/2024 in #questions
Seeking a career/life advice.
Hi everyone.
I'm reaching out for advice on a significant crossroads in my life, and I value any insights you can share.
Here's a bit about me:
- I'm 26 years old and currently working as a developer in India with 3 years of experience.I completed my Bachelor's in Computer Science in 2020.
-My initial plan was to pursue MS in the US since my college years, driven by a desire to explore new opportunities and the American Dream. Unfortunately, due to financial constraints and health of parents due to covid, I had to drop the plan.
Career Timeline:
- Got placed in TCS in my final year with a low-low salary of ₹3.35 lakhs ($4k) per annum. Started working there in 2021
- Currently at NTT Data with a salary of ₹30 lakhs ($35,000) per annum.
Social and Personal Dilemmas:
- I've practically had no social life, largely due to previous financial constraints and dedicating most of my time to work and studies as I wasn't the brightest.
- I haven't dated anyone for two years, primarily due to the demands of remote work, keeping me occupied throughout the day.
Now, the Dilemma:
- Despite having a stable and well-paying job, I'm considering leaving it to pursue MS in the US. Logically, it might not be the most practical move, given the uncertainties and the significant financial investment. However, I feel compelled to explore this opportunity.
- As I approach 30, I find myself at a "now or never" situation. I'm torn between the logical path of job stability and the desire for a new beginning through higher studies.
I've been grappling with this decision for months, considering my age, lack of a social life, and the uncertainties involved. I'd greatly appreciate your opinions and advice on transitioning from a decent job to pursue higher studies.Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I welcome any insights you can 
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