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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 4/15/2025 in #topic-of-the-day
Removing Intimidation From Fashion - Topic of the day 4/15/25
i call it as i see it :xd:
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Mmfad
•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 4/15/2025 in #topic-of-the-day
Removing Intimidation From Fashion - Topic of the day 4/15/25
For this space i dress pretty normie / mfa house style, and nothing too experimental or avant garde, but clothing / style has always been a way for me to get closer to expressing my desired gender identity .
It’s funny because now on the street i just look like A Regular Dude, (i think,) but there’s years and years of trial and error, gender identity turmoil and a lot of internal confusion behind that to now come out on the other side to be relatively unclockable but hopefully still unique in my style expression.
I feel like i always have clothing / style to thank as a way to express my desired identity even before i had the means to get closer to that via other means such as hormone therapy and surgical procedures etc.
clothes don’t have to be super important but can be such a helpful vehicle to explore who you are
emo rant over
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Mmfad
•Created by seth on 4/10/2025 in #questions-and-advice
recommend me some shirt sleeve shirts (button ups) / polos
the margaret howell ones would prob work at any workplace
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Mmfad
•Created by seth on 4/10/2025 in #questions-and-advice
recommend me some shirt sleeve shirts (button ups) / polos
if it were me i’d take getting dress-coded to mean that anything ~experimental~ is out and i’d probably just go for something inoffensive like J Crew, Todd Snyder or Buck Mason but i realize that’s not your vibe, just not sure how strict your workplace is
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Mmfad
•Created by seth on 4/10/2025 in #questions-and-advice
recommend me some shirt sleeve shirts (button ups) / polos
what does the dress code say? like is any shirt with a collar mostly OK or is it more rigid?
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Mmfad
•Created by J on 4/10/2025 in #questions-and-advice
Seeking J Crew Shirt Measurements
Yall rock
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Mmfad
•Created by J on 4/10/2025 in #questions-and-advice
Seeking J Crew Shirt Measurements
thank you SO much 🙂
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Mmfad
•Created by J on 4/10/2025 in #questions-and-advice
Seeking J Crew Shirt Measurements
Thank you so much, this is incredibly helpful! I really appreciate it
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Mmfad
•Created by J on 4/10/2025 in #questions-and-advice
Seeking J Crew Shirt Measurements
Sweet, thanks. I was thinking medium as well but will try to scope these out in person
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•Created by Dragomir on 4/6/2025 in #questions-and-advice
Burgundy Jacket recs?
knowing your budget would help steer recommendations too
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Mmfad
•Created by Dragomir on 4/6/2025 in #questions-and-advice
Burgundy Jacket recs?
Carhartt, both vintage and new via Carhartt Work In Progress have made maroon jackets over the years in this vein. Try searching for “Carhartt Detroit jacket maroon”
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•Created by RickyWinterborn on 4/6/2025 in #questions-and-advice
Jacket like this
Vintage Izod and Tommy Harringtons on Ebay are a similar vibe
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Mmfad
•Created by RickyWinterborn on 4/6/2025 in #questions-and-advice
Jacket like this
Yeah i just got a very similar looking Polo Harrington on Ebay for about $40
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•Created by 300bp on 4/6/2025 in #questions-and-advice
Looking for some simple sweaters to buy and style
Vintage Russel and champion on Ebay have great sweatshirts in a bunch of colors and can be found for like $20 typically 😊 For a slight enhancement the Todd Snyder x Champion collab is nice and also widely available on Ebay
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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 4/5/2025 in #topic-of-the-day
Brand Spotlight: Clarks - Topic of the day 4/5/25
i don’t wear mine that much either, i need to make an effort to style them more
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Mmfad
•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 4/5/2025 in #topic-of-the-day
Brand Spotlight: Clarks - Topic of the day 4/5/25
they are objectively ugly but i think they’re sick lol
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Mmfad
•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 4/5/2025 in #topic-of-the-day
Brand Spotlight: Clarks - Topic of the day 4/5/25
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Mmfad
•Created by J on 4/3/2025 in #questions-and-advice
Super casual freaked-up wedding fit advice
Sweet, thanks for your input
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