Virus
Mmfad
•Created by allect on 10/2/2024 in #questions-and-advice
how do I transform my look to attract more women?
i'm on day 8 of combo covid and migraine and my boss made me come back to work for a 12 hour shift that i am at the tail end of. i have given all i can at this time.
if you do not feel this is sufficient i will take a time-out for however long the mod team deems appropriate.
87 replies
Mmfad
•Created by allect on 10/2/2024 in #questions-and-advice
how do I transform my look to attract more women?
well i've certainly read it.
87 replies
Mmfad
•Created by allect on 10/2/2024 in #questions-and-advice
how do I transform my look to attract more women?
explain how? that's my opinion/lived experience, i guess i'm just not really sure how much further i could expand on the topic.
ian mentions it's a self-report and i do suppose that's accurate, i don't particularly value myself and i'm both a woman and mentally ill. :blobshrug:
87 replies
Mmfad
•Created by allect on 10/2/2024 in #questions-and-advice
how do I transform my look to attract more women?
mod has already requested we not derail further.
@mod i should probably delete my comment to prevent further instances of off topic?
87 replies
Mmfad
•Created by allect on 10/2/2024 in #questions-and-advice
how do I transform my look to attract more women?
op, in terms of changing up your wardrobe, what types of clothing help you feel like you are your best self?
you specifically mention you feel like sometimes you look older than you actually are, perhaps just experimenting with different types of accessories may help you find personal style you feel at home in? (edit to add: because the clothing in your OP photos feel rather timeless to me, with perhaps a skew toward millennial age due to pants being more fitted vs loose
87 replies
Mmfad
•Created by allect on 10/2/2024 in #questions-and-advice
how do I transform my look to attract more women?
and betray my morals by being inauthentic to my genuine self? i think not, dearest reader.
87 replies
Mmfad
•Created by allect on 10/2/2024 in #questions-and-advice
how do I transform my look to attract more women?
maybe you can, but i find it quite difficult. thank you for your input tho.
87 replies
Mmfad
•Created by allect on 10/2/2024 in #questions-and-advice
how do I transform my look to attract more women?
agree that your clothing is fine but that you need to dress for yourself. if you look like you want to crawl out of your skin, the only women who will want to date you are 'fixers' or supremely fucked up abusers, and tbh you don't want to date either of those women. you deserve to have a healthy relationship with someone who is mentally stable.
87 replies