What haircut should I get?
I am going crazy ever since I screwed up my hair and my family thinks it looks terrible. What should I get?
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How do you want it to look?
I don't know
take a look on pinterest, unfortunately it’s one of those things that’s best worked out yourself but i’m sure we can point you in the right direction. what do you think doesn’t work well with your current hairstyle?
The criticisms I keep getting are "stop combing your hair! It should look messier!" "You look like a dork/Dwight Schrute", "Cut it shorter on the sides!" "You look like a Gen Zer! You are too old for this" (This last one was when I center parted it. In my defense my hair kinda does that on its own and thought that since it was back it could finally look natural)
okay, but what do you think
I ALSO get that comment and to be honest it ALL looks ugly to me
I don't get the whole "What matters it's what you think" attitude because at the end of the day, society might exclude me on their opinions, not mine
And besides, I just cannot visualize in my mind something that would look good
Speak to your hairdresser then, if you’re surrounding yourself by people who would exclude you for your hair then perhaps they’re the wrong people to be around 🤷♂️ only trying to help work out what would give you confidence in your hair/appearance
These people are my family and they keep going "We are the only ones telling you the truth. Everyone else is just being nice to you while they laugh behind your back"
fwiw I don’t see anything particularly wrong with your haircut
definitely not what i’d call screwed up or terrible
I don’t think the haircut is the problem here
ur family sounds mean lol.
Its your hair. You need to find something you like, that's all there is to it. If you don't want to put any work in just go to a barber, ask for a high & tight, and move on with your life.
i think the haircut could use a little less shorter sides and back, but honestly its still easily a good haircut and better then a lot of the haircuts i see day to day
so the sides are too short?
it seems like you pretty easily visualized why this was bad for what it's worth
and it is what you think ultimately because it's your hair, growing out of your scalp. before society even judges you, you're going to judge yourself on how it feels to you, how it looks to you, etc.
either go to a barber and say "hey i want a change what should i do" or ask for a high and tight and move on