Looking for help with femboy sizing and clothing recommendations :3
Aba so I've been on the lookout for some clothing as well as help with sizing. Six foot with fairly smooth and clear skin and I would love to show off my legs. I will link some things that I have been looking at below and I'm sure this would help some others as well :3. Furry themed things and such are always appreciated as well. Please give a link for the product and/or detailed info if you do leave any suggestions!
- https://www.amazon.com/URATOT-Cotton-Shorts-Summer-Athletic/dp/B083XK9NK3/ref=sr_1_5
- https://www.amazon.com/COZYEASE-Sweatshirt-Shoulder-Drawstring-Pullover/dp/B0CFQFF794/ref=sr_1_2_sspa
- https://femzai.com/products/femzai™-boykisser-hoodie?variant=50529438269756
- https://www.femboyfatale.com/collections/femboy-starter-pack/products/fishnet-stockings
- https://www.etsy.com/listing/1510549540/pu-nylon-navy-high-cut-sport-sprint
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going to need some more clarity on the q -- do you want to know how womens sizing translates to men's?
in general i ignore sizes and just go for garment measurements
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but i guess i'd hazard like one, maybe two sizes up? women's L = men's M?
these are basically meaningless
Can I use string to do it
soft measuring tape is ideal but yeah you can use a string + regular ruler to similar purposes
but crucially what you want are the measurements of the clothes themselves, not just your body measurements
an M in one item will be totally different from an M in another item
Can you tell me what body parts to measure
If you have stuff that already fits well in the waist mesure that, then compare to flat waist measures of what you want to buy
like this with pants or skirts

for stuff like sweatshirts your body dimensions are a little less important but i'd make sure it isn't too small in the chest, for which you might need largest part of chest measurements
i basically yolo it on sweatshirts all the time though, i think oversized is fine
wha
Can I have a list of body marts to measure?
It will be more consistent
for pants -- waist, like oman said, and inseam.
for shirts -- probably shoulders.
also important is knowing how long you want shirts and pants to be
trust me, mesuring clothes flat will be better
I wub but they are all elastic
wud
what do you mean by "consistent"
we can't do something like read your list of body measurements and tell you you're a medium in every brand...that's not how it's going to work
What?
what is consistent?
The result and outcome will be repeatable with less failure modes?
what?
By giving exact measurements of body?
??
what is the result you want?
you want to buy clothes that fit?
so you also have to measure the clothes???
hi I did the change from M to W clothes let me tell you measuring clothes is much easier
Just to know the minimum I can wear then what to oversize
Unless you have a buddy measuring like arms and legs is nigh impossible
Alr well lmk waht do do ig Ill do it
Especially if you’re using a string
Look at the size chart - they’ll often have a graphic, then find an article of clothing you like the fit of and measure the same parts and match that to the size chart
But how do I make sure things that are elastic fit the same?
the same as what...
Is the thing you’re measuring elastic or the thing you wanna buy
do you have anything non elastic that fits?
Not rlly
Ill take 5 min
and check
Elastic measurements are less important tho tbh
As long as ur in the ballpark
Okay nvm
Not a single non e thing
The whole point of elastic is to adjust
Yea
But these are things I cant order more than once
Its such a hastle to get them
Elastic will stretch out a bit over time. I'd recommend going a bit smaller than your natural body. Let's say like 1 or 2 inches. I made that number up just nw
Wha
So what am I comparing to
What’s elastic
sorry shes wrong here
First things first
they own elastic
they want things that are not
dippy is making this insanely hard lul
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IM making this hard?????
the point is you cant lay flat mesure eleastic
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abaa
pinkkea i think ur a lil confused but i respect the effort
fuckin Pokémon up in here
all right i see what i misunderstood now
i think you have enough advice so i'll be leaving but i would advise being able to express yourself more coherently will give you better advice on the internet
I agree I just dont know what Im conveying lul
Says the person who just spammed dippy tinky 4 times
three times
anyway @Trixie, if flat lay measurements really are not an option you can do on the body with a string. its going to be a bit less precise. measure your waist where you want the waist to sit then compare that to the waist measure on the website.
hrm alr
and if something doesnt have a size chart
its kinda just a gamble
theres no standard at all around lettered sizing so... uh good luck
That was a little part of the post
I also rlly wanted suggestions :3
Do you want specifically femboy things or any womenswear
Yeah anything works
Im 142 6ft
ok I don’t need the full rundown you just need to know your own measurements
woww
lul alr
I think its going to be get many solid suggestions out of this server just because this stuff is pretty outside of the general style here so people aren't going to have as many recs off the top of their heads, It may be worth getting some solid waist and chest measurements and finding something like a subreddit that would be more knowledgeable and posting a "looking for X_items" post that includes some stuff you already like, a budget, and your measurements.
if you want the standard baby trans girl/femboiy stuff i can give you some like basic pointers for what to look for but actually getting there is up to you yeah unless you have a really specific style or stuff
like you can look for american apparel pleated skirts + their dupes on like ebay/depop
sockdreams has some fairly well regarded thigh highs
Neck -> 13.5in
Waist -> 35in
Chest -> 36in
I have these what other major ones should I grab
pls don't buy that stupid amazonbasics skirt every femboy and baby trans girl buys you can find a nicer one used for not much more money on ebay/depop
probably arm and inseam length
I hate skirts with a passion
Can I get a site to sho me this
Idk what Im doing
This site is fairly confusing
wikiHow
Take Clothing Measurements
Many clothing catalogs or fitness programs ask you to take body measurements. All you really need is a soft measuring tape (or a piece of string and a regular tape measure) and (preferably) someone to help you, though you can do it...
this one actually has gifs
neat!
guys why didn't we just link them this
are we stupid
i think oman said it earlier too, that once you have these down you can shop more consistently bc sizing varies wildly between brands
Yea
and you'll probably get better recommendations with threads like "looking specifically for x, i have a budget of y", stuff like that! i also agree w ana that pls don't buy things off of amazon and the like, there are 100% better options out there
also you are measuring in 3d, so if the item has a lay flat measurements it will be half of what you have here. like the 35" will translate closer to a ~17" flat waistband measurement.
Neck -> 13.5in
Waist -> 30in
Hips -> 35in
Chest -> 36in
Thigh -> 19.5
Calves -> 15in
Idk how to do arms or inseam

Is this as far as I can go to foot?
inseam is very hard without help
It says pants fall
But I need a general use one
Well look I really cant lul
I would if I could
it depends on how you want the pants to sit
inseam you can probably do with a normal pair of pants
i would take inseam from a pair of pants you already have
since i'm guessing the elastic is done on the waistband
Okay hold on
not some like mythical elastic legs


These go right above ankles
yeah you can measure those pant legs pretty easily
But isn't this inaccurate?


I have a whole finger of room in the crotch and it's an inch or two above ankles
inseam is the easiest to figure out and visualize
do you have another pair of pants then
Let's do sweatpants Uno momento
if you dont want the inch above just the shoes just add an inch to whatever you get
yeah this is what i mean, you can easily add or subtract the extra inches where you want/need
it's basically a straight line
Got it perfect
I won't go deep into "look for measurements rather than sizing"
but on how women's fits compare to men:
Neck -> 13.5in
Waist -> 30in
Hips -> 35in
Chest -> 36in
Thigh -> 19.5
Calves -> 15in
Inseam -> 31in
Armspan -> 73.5in
Height -> 72.5
women shirts generally have a thinner waist, men's shirts are more rectangular
I've found more high-waisted pants at accessible prices at women's sections than men's
Im not I just need a way to give people that know what their doing an idea
I've found more straight/baggy pants at men's sections than women's
womens shoes are narrower
This is a solid set, again most people here aren't going to have lots of recs in the style you are looking for. but if you go to the right subreddit and post what you are looking for .ie Shorts, Pants, Hoodies. and this with a budget i bet lots of people will be able to help
pants I have the same size M and F because the bottleneck for me is hip width
Already did
Same post without measurements part
I still would like help with sizing the 4 I sent doe :3
this is the size chart for the etsy shorts you posted - you'd compare the measurements you just took to the ones listed here. All that's provided is waist size, so find the one that matches yours and you got your size

the hoodie, size chart

the first link one is really anoying to find but L should work
Alright Im going over them
Yeah the dolphins
I cant find anything
Those are the most important imo
i found it L is 32" waist
but its a drawstring so going up a bit wont hurt
but it may be a but looser

this is the chart
Hm
Dolphins would need to be worn lower for males correct?

If I were to ear it like this it would ehm
Well yeah
eh just tuck
So wouldnt I be using the hip?
That works as well ig
if you want to wear them at the hip then yes, but its not how the shorts are meant to be worn it may look a bit odd
Yeah
Alright
What was medium?
I cant find it
oop mb
So medium it is ig
I would still suggest large, just because string mesuments tend to run a bit small and the drawstring makes an inch or two easy to make up, but too small is just too small
Ill take the advice then
Just dont want them lose
eh whatever Ill get both ig
Arm Est -> 29in

yeah idk here
this chart is a mess and non of the mesuments are all that usefull
Yeah
really what you need is the shoulder measure
but its not there
if you can find another cropped hoodie that has that it may be better
Yeah I dont mind moving
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CFXGCS9S/ref=sspa_dk_detail_0
Kinda cool
https://www.femboyfatale.com/products/fishnet-stockings could you guess on this one?
no sizes
the words are for the spacing in the netting
theres only one acutal size
again no size chart makes it hard
but its adjustable and super oversized so tbh id bet sending m or L would probably just work