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mfad3w ago
Trixie

Looking for help with femboy sizing and clothing recommendations :3

Aba so I've been on the lookout for some clothing as well as help with sizing. Six foot with fairly smooth and clear skin and I would love to show off my legs. I will link some things that I have been looking at below and I'm sure this would help some others as well :3. Furry themed things and such are always appreciated as well. Please give a link for the product and/or detailed info if you do leave any suggestions! - https://www.amazon.com/URATOT-Cotton-Shorts-Summer-Athletic/dp/B083XK9NK3/ref=sr_1_5 - https://www.amazon.com/COZYEASE-Sweatshirt-Shoulder-Drawstring-Pullover/dp/B0CFQFF794/ref=sr_1_2_sspa - https://femzai.com/products/femzai™-boykisser-hoodie?variant=50529438269756 - https://www.femboyfatale.com/collections/femboy-starter-pack/products/fishnet-stockings - https://www.etsy.com/listing/1510549540/pu-nylon-navy-high-cut-sport-sprint
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pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
going to need some more clarity on the q -- do you want to know how womens sizing translates to men's? in general i ignore sizes and just go for garment measurements
oman121
oman1213w ago
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pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
but i guess i'd hazard like one, maybe two sizes up? women's L = men's M? these are basically meaningless
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Can I use string to do it
pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
soft measuring tape is ideal but yeah you can use a string + regular ruler to similar purposes but crucially what you want are the measurements of the clothes themselves, not just your body measurements an M in one item will be totally different from an M in another item
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Can you tell me what body parts to measure
oman121
oman1213w ago
If you have stuff that already fits well in the waist mesure that, then compare to flat waist measures of what you want to buy
oman121
oman1213w ago
like this with pants or skirts
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pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
for stuff like sweatshirts your body dimensions are a little less important but i'd make sure it isn't too small in the chest, for which you might need largest part of chest measurements i basically yolo it on sweatshirts all the time though, i think oversized is fine
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
wha Can I have a list of body marts to measure? It will be more consistent
pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
for pants -- waist, like oman said, and inseam. for shirts -- probably shoulders. also important is knowing how long you want shirts and pants to be
oman121
oman1213w ago
trust me, mesuring clothes flat will be better
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
I wub but they are all elastic wud
pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
what do you mean by "consistent" we can't do something like read your list of body measurements and tell you you're a medium in every brand...that's not how it's going to work
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
What?
pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
what is consistent?
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
The result and outcome will be repeatable with less failure modes?
pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
what?
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
By giving exact measurements of body? ??
pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
what is the result you want? you want to buy clothes that fit? so you also have to measure the clothes???
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
hi I did the change from M to W clothes let me tell you measuring clothes is much easier
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Just to know the minimum I can wear then what to oversize
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
Unless you have a buddy measuring like arms and legs is nigh impossible
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Alr well lmk waht do do ig Ill do it
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
Especially if you’re using a string Look at the size chart - they’ll often have a graphic, then find an article of clothing you like the fit of and measure the same parts and match that to the size chart
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
But how do I make sure things that are elastic fit the same?
pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
the same as what...
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
Is the thing you’re measuring elastic or the thing you wanna buy
oman121
oman1213w ago
do you have anything non elastic that fits?
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Not rlly Ill take 5 min and check
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
Elastic measurements are less important tho tbh As long as ur in the ballpark
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Okay nvm Not a single non e thing
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
The whole point of elastic is to adjust
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Yea But these are things I cant order more than once Its such a hastle to get them
pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
Elastic will stretch out a bit over time. I'd recommend going a bit smaller than your natural body. Let's say like 1 or 2 inches. I made that number up just nw
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Wha So what am I comparing to
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
What’s elastic
oman121
oman1213w ago
sorry shes wrong here
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
First things first
oman121
oman1213w ago
they own elastic they want things that are not
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
dippy is making this insanely hard lul
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
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pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
IM making this hard?????
oman121
oman1213w ago
the point is you cant lay flat mesure eleastic
pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
:dippy: :tinky: :dippy: :tinky: :dippy: :tinky:
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
abaa
oman121
oman1213w ago
pinkkea i think ur a lil confused but i respect the effort
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
fuckin Pokémon up in here
pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
all right i see what i misunderstood now i think you have enough advice so i'll be leaving but i would advise being able to express yourself more coherently will give you better advice on the internet
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
I agree I just dont know what Im conveying lul
Scott (stupid)
Says the person who just spammed dippy tinky 4 times
pinkkea
pinkkea3w ago
three times
oman121
oman1213w ago
anyway @Trixie, if flat lay measurements really are not an option you can do on the body with a string. its going to be a bit less precise. measure your waist where you want the waist to sit then compare that to the waist measure on the website.
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
hrm alr
oman121
oman1213w ago
and if something doesnt have a size chart its kinda just a gamble theres no standard at all around lettered sizing so... uh good luck
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
That was a little part of the post I also rlly wanted suggestions :3
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
Do you want specifically femboy things or any womenswear
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Yeah anything works Im 142 6ft
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
ok I don’t need the full rundown you just need to know your own measurements
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
woww lul alr
oman121
oman1213w ago
I think its going to be get many solid suggestions out of this server just because this stuff is pretty outside of the general style here so people aren't going to have as many recs off the top of their heads, It may be worth getting some solid waist and chest measurements and finding something like a subreddit that would be more knowledgeable and posting a "looking for X_items" post that includes some stuff you already like, a budget, and your measurements.
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
if you want the standard baby trans girl/femboiy stuff i can give you some like basic pointers for what to look for but actually getting there is up to you yeah unless you have a really specific style or stuff like you can look for american apparel pleated skirts + their dupes on like ebay/depop sockdreams has some fairly well regarded thigh highs
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Neck -> 13.5in Waist -> 35in Chest -> 36in I have these what other major ones should I grab
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
pls don't buy that stupid amazonbasics skirt every femboy and baby trans girl buys you can find a nicer one used for not much more money on ebay/depop probably arm and inseam length
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
I hate skirts with a passion Can I get a site to sho me this Idk what Im doing This site is fairly confusing
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
wikiHow
Take Clothing Measurements
Many clothing catalogs or fitness programs ask you to take body measurements. All you really need is a soft measuring tape (or a piece of string and a regular tape measure) and (preferably) someone to help you, though you can do it...
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
this one actually has gifs neat! guys why didn't we just link them this are we stupid
baek
baek3w ago
i think oman said it earlier too, that once you have these down you can shop more consistently bc sizing varies wildly between brands
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Yea
baek
baek3w ago
and you'll probably get better recommendations with threads like "looking specifically for x, i have a budget of y", stuff like that! i also agree w ana that pls don't buy things off of amazon and the like, there are 100% better options out there
oman121
oman1213w ago
also you are measuring in 3d, so if the item has a lay flat measurements it will be half of what you have here. like the 35" will translate closer to a ~17" flat waistband measurement.
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Neck -> 13.5in Waist -> 30in Hips -> 35in Chest -> 36in Thigh -> 19.5 Calves -> 15in Idk how to do arms or inseam
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
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Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Is this as far as I can go to foot?
oman121
oman1213w ago
inseam is very hard without help
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
It says pants fall But I need a general use one Well look I really cant lul I would if I could
oman121
oman1213w ago
it depends on how you want the pants to sit
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
inseam you can probably do with a normal pair of pants
oman121
oman1213w ago
i would take inseam from a pair of pants you already have
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
since i'm guessing the elastic is done on the waistband
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Okay hold on
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
not some like mythical elastic legs
oman121
oman1213w ago
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Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
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Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
These go right above ankles
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
yeah you can measure those pant legs pretty easily
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
But isn't this inaccurate?
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Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
I have a whole finger of room in the crotch and it's an inch or two above ankles
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
inseam is the easiest to figure out and visualize do you have another pair of pants then
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Let's do sweatpants Uno momento
oman121
oman1213w ago
if you dont want the inch above just the shoes just add an inch to whatever you get
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
yeah this is what i mean, you can easily add or subtract the extra inches where you want/need it's basically a straight line
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Got it perfect
Gatan do rock
Gatan do rock3w ago
I won't go deep into "look for measurements rather than sizing" but on how women's fits compare to men:
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Neck -> 13.5in Waist -> 30in Hips -> 35in Chest -> 36in Thigh -> 19.5 Calves -> 15in Inseam -> 31in Armspan -> 73.5in Height -> 72.5
Gatan do rock
Gatan do rock3w ago
women shirts generally have a thinner waist, men's shirts are more rectangular I've found more high-waisted pants at accessible prices at women's sections than men's
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Im not I just need a way to give people that know what their doing an idea
Gatan do rock
Gatan do rock3w ago
I've found more straight/baggy pants at men's sections than women's womens shoes are narrower
oman121
oman1213w ago
This is a solid set, again most people here aren't going to have lots of recs in the style you are looking for. but if you go to the right subreddit and post what you are looking for .ie Shorts, Pants, Hoodies. and this with a budget i bet lots of people will be able to help
Gatan do rock
Gatan do rock3w ago
pants I have the same size M and F because the bottleneck for me is hip width
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Already did Same post without measurements part I still would like help with sizing the 4 I sent doe :3
carrion
carrion3w ago
this is the size chart for the etsy shorts you posted - you'd compare the measurements you just took to the ones listed here. All that's provided is waist size, so find the one that matches yours and you got your size
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oman121
oman1213w ago
the hoodie, size chart
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oman121
oman1213w ago
the first link one is really anoying to find but L should work
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Alright Im going over them Yeah the dolphins I cant find anything Those are the most important imo
oman121
oman1213w ago
i found it L is 32" waist but its a drawstring so going up a bit wont hurt but it may be a but looser
oman121
oman1213w ago
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oman121
oman1213w ago
this is the chart
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Hm Dolphins would need to be worn lower for males correct?
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
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Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
If I were to ear it like this it would ehm Well yeah
anasthesia-
anasthesia-3w ago
eh just tuck
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
So wouldnt I be using the hip? That works as well ig
oman121
oman1213w ago
if you want to wear them at the hip then yes, but its not how the shorts are meant to be worn it may look a bit odd
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Yeah Alright What was medium? I cant find it
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
oop mb So medium it is ig
oman121
oman1213w ago
I would still suggest large, just because string mesuments tend to run a bit small and the drawstring makes an inch or two easy to make up, but too small is just too small
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Ill take the advice then Just dont want them lose eh whatever Ill get both ig
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Arm Est -> 29in
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oman121
oman1213w ago
yeah idk here this chart is a mess and non of the mesuments are all that usefull
Trixie
TrixieOP3w ago
Yeah
oman121
oman1213w ago
really what you need is the shoulder measure but its not there if you can find another cropped hoodie that has that it may be better
oman121
oman1213w ago
no sizes the words are for the spacing in the netting theres only one acutal size
oman121
oman1213w ago
again no size chart makes it hard but its adjustable and super oversized so tbh id bet sending m or L would probably just work

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