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mfad9mo ago
Leit Motif

Beckett Simnon Low Profile White Sneakers Worth the investment?

I ordered a pair of Beckett Simnon low profile white sneakers before reading the updates of 2016 to 2023 and how slim profiles are not favored anymore. Should I cancel my order? I was hoping to invest in something timeless but that is ironically no longer the case. My understanding of fashion is limited to what was advised in 2016. I generally preferred slimmer fited clothes and I agreed that it was timeless as it serves the utilitarian purpose of accentuating one's profile. I haven't developed the intuition to guide me on whether something is "correct" or "incorrect" for me, so I am looking for some guidance to get started. For context, I am a 36 year old male that is losing weight and gaining muscle, and as a result, my older clothes no longer fit. I thought I would use this opportunity to update my wardrobe more seriously than I have in the past. I also want to consider what is "age appropriate" vs what looks comical on someone my age. P.s. if someone can point me towards guides or albums for inspiration, I would appreciate it.
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Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
Which ones specifically?
Bigelow
Bigelow9mo ago
It really depends what your goals are for how you want to dress. Do you want to be more trendy / fashionable for 2024 and develop a sense of style that people into fashion think is cool? Sure cancel your order and try and be more intentional about your clothing purchases Minimal white sneakers like the Becketts can still be fine if you don't particularly want to be fashion-forward though. They're solid shoes and versatile in the sense that you can wear them with a lot of things (even if you won't get compliments on them from people who are into fashion these days)
kyn
kyn9mo ago
Re: guides, many are linked here - https://discord.com/channels/1116793467654381685/1125076626665910332 or on the substack wider and slimmer fits both work at most ages, and anyone can look good or bad in a fit for a number of reasons
goofus
goofus9mo ago
I agree with GSH, those shoes can definitely still work. Some longer inseam, wide pants would look great. I have that brand, albeit quite a few years old now, and the quality is nice for the value.
Benji
Benji9mo ago
The shoes can work but why would you try? There are cheaper sneakers that have a) existed forever b) aren't off trend and c) I don't think are ugly And d) are easy to wear with a wide range of fits
Please Go Away
Please Go Away9mo ago
For inspiration, we recommend looking through #waywt-highlights and #waywt and making a note of what you like. There are users who are around our age and older who post there regularly, but most of the younger users on this server wear styles that will work on someone in their mid-30s If you buy clothes and want feedback, you can post pictures in #styling-suggestions and we'll help you figure out if an outfit works or if things fit in a way that's more on-trend. If you're looking for brand recommendations for anything you can post another thread in the #questions-and-advice channel. As far as whether you should keep the shoes, you can probably see we have differing opinions--I agree with @GSH that they're off-trend but not inherently bad. If your goal is to dress on-trend I would go for Air Force ones or New Balances like GSH's guide recommends.
kyn
kyn9mo ago
unnecessarily aggro here
Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
Lots of buzzwords in your post. Timeless and age appropriate are highly subjective terms and two people will have different opinions on what they mean. Back to the shoes, as many people will hate them just as many will like them. It all boils down to - Do you like them? Do they fit what you want to present to the world? Do they work with they way you live and go about your day? Guides are nice but don't think of them as checklists. Build your own inspo while answering those questions I just mentioned up there. Note little details like color, fabric, etc. This will all Build a certain style ypu gravitate towards. In the end have fun with it, don't buy too quickly, and make sure it fits with "you"
Benji
Benji9mo ago
My bad. I do personally dislike minimalist white sneakers haha and it seems like OP isn't particularly tied to them. Especially as they can still cancel the order
Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
I wear a fedora most days, so ymmv lol
kyn
kyn9mo ago
I think experimenting is important, I’ve tried a lot of shoes on in the last few years (and know you’ve been in a big “try shit on” era too!) and I wear triple white stan smiths most days when a few years ago I was convinced I wouldn’t like them (oop, meant to reply to benji)
Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
I wear white BS sneakers from time to time. Sometimes I just want to blend in with people around me This. Figure out what you like, and sometime step outside the box just a little and you might change your perception
kyn
kyn9mo ago
To GSH’s point they won’t get you compliments from fashion ppl but if you like them and they’re comfortable they won’t make you look worse
Benji
Benji9mo ago
Aren't these particular shoes like $170 tho? Doesn't seem too conducive to experimenting Like my Reebok club Cs were $65 and stan smiths are also less than these
kyn
kyn9mo ago
Maybe that’s within his experimenting budget
Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
It's ok to not be "fashionable". If you like slim stuff, keep rocking it. Who cares. But try a relaxed fit and you might like it
kyn
kyn9mo ago
And those shoes all look different I like stan smiths, I don’t the way like GATs work with my clothes, I don’t like some Reeboks, it’s extremely subjective Full disclosure i bought BS minimal white sneaks and gave them to a friend shortly after missing the return window because I didn’t like them better than the stan smiths but that was my experience
Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
Everyone around me is still in slim stuff. I actually had zero clue we were in wide era until I started doing what you are currently doing, getting involved in forums etc. Now I'm literally the only person around in wide pants (relaxed fit or bigger). I rarely see anyone in relaxed fits
kyn
kyn9mo ago
Anyway I think we’ve gotten a bit off topic - let’s let the OP have a chance to read and chime in if he wants to
Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
I think its still on target as he is overhauling his entire wardrobe. So it's still in the vein of advice given to newbies slow down and take your time. Try to get too influenced by the zeitgeist and other folk's opinions. Def post fits and get advice if you're unsure about if something works. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY DONT BE AFRAID TO RETURN THINGS IF YOU DONT IMMEDIATELY LIKE IT. If you don't immediately gravitate to something, it's highly likely you'll wear it less and less and you'll realize you wasted money
Leit Motif
Leit MotifOP9mo ago
Reid Sneakers White I think what I'm looking for is something along the pareto principle, 20% effort for 80% gain. I am just trying to maximize my investments when rebuilding a capsule wardrobe to "impress" the most amount of people. I guess another way to say it is I am looking at fashion from a purely utilitarian perspective of maximizing my perceived social value rather than as a form of artistic expression.
Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
Yeah I think those are the ones I have. I like them for when I'm trying some basic fit. Very comfortable. Had them a few years
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Leit Motif
Leit MotifOP9mo ago
This is what I was sadly realizing. I have no idea what fashion "means" but as an outside observer, I can't help but think that this is a giant step backwards.
Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
Its likely that most of the people around you have no idea whats in fashion You can jump on the wide fit train and most people will think you are behind the curve dressing like an old man, when actually it's the opposite lol
Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
These pants once elicited a comment of "what's up with those highwaters?" A term I had not heard since gradeschool lmao. My hands are in my pockets here so they actually sit LOWER than this picture
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Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
There's also a wholeeeeeee thing about dressing for other people vs dressing for yourself vs dressing for occasion, black hole you could go down, which sometimes causes me to go F IT I'LL JUST WEAR GYM CLOTHES EVERYWHERE LIKE EVERYONE ELSE!!!11! Anyways. Good luck with the shoes!
Spuck
Spuck9mo ago
100% this Put That Shit On, OP
goofus
goofus9mo ago
slim shoes, straight pants
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tun🌻
tun🌻9mo ago
Chuck 70s are probably about the only "timeless" sneaker there is
Benji
Benji9mo ago
Yeh a pair of white chuck 70s would be great I personally have a pair of white Reebok club C 85s and black chuck 70s
Bigelow
Bigelow9mo ago
Then I'd go for something else. Look around #waywt and see what shoes you like or that you think would be good for your style
sharloy
sharloy9mo ago
Classic red jordans Tigers maybe
tun🌻
tun🌻9mo ago
I don't see JFK wearing those in 1952 😄
Bigelow
Bigelow9mo ago
Were GATs ever off trend
sharloy
sharloy9mo ago
Idk I don’t think so? They were never not in but for a while I don’t think they were that popular
jawntanamo_bae
jawntanamo_bae9mo ago
Off trend, yes but uncool? No Reebok Club C 85s are great. IMO any fit you might think about wearing the white minimalist sneaker with would look way better with Club Cs, GATs, or white AF1 lows
Leit Motif
Leit MotifOP9mo ago
I like this advice in theory however I feel (incorrectly or not) that I need a baseline first before calibrating. Sort of like learn the rules first before breaking them. There was also mention of budget and I don't have unlimited disposable income. For my experience and budget, any clothing that costs more than $100 is questionable to me. I need to justify that purchase with something. Lol, this resonates with me. I work in an office and some of the gen z'ers wear athleisure type stuff. I don't actually think anyone around where I live has any idea what is fashionable or not. I just want to make an informed baseline before branching out. This is something I've considered, I just figured in this case I should cancel my order because I have to wait a month anyways and I can go buy some New Balances today if that was my choice. I'm trying to figure this out now. I am going to try this wide-fit stuff but part of me is repulsed. I grew up in the 90's. Why would I want to dress like what I had thought we had progressed from? It sounds stupid but I am willing to give it a try because in the end, I think I am part of the dressing for others camp more so than the other two if only because clothing is utilitarian as symbols for status, cultural knowledge, etc.
carrion
carrion9mo ago
you mentioned perceived social value as a decision driver and tbh this is where you kinda have to do the work on your own. Are you traveling a lot, or mostly in one location with one or two social groups? What are they wearing, what do they like? If your goal is to impress people, you have to figure out what the people you want to impress are impressed by. We can tell you that wide fits are in, but if the people you want to impress are dressing like hyper slim fit millennials then you aren't going to gain any social capital from them by putting on wide fit pants.
Leit Motif
Leit MotifOP9mo ago
Thanks, that isn't something I had considered. I guess I had hoped that there was just one answer that would work for the majority of situations. But if I am performing, I need to know my audience. I guess time to do some research. For the moment, I think I am going to cancel my order because paying $200+ for something I might use is a bit out of my budget.
Talbot
Talbot9mo ago
In my opinion dressing to impress other people will be a huge neverending expensive task, ultimately wearing things that you don't really like
carrion
carrion9mo ago
Totally, and the thing about using clothes as social capital ime is... once you open your mouth, your clothes barely matter. Some ppl want to blend in with their immediate social circle when they dress, and that's fine, but like I said it takes personal work to know what that looks like.
Leit Motif
Leit MotifOP9mo ago
Thanks for your insights. My big takeaway is that I need to do some more research. Okay, one last question if anyone sees this. What is the point of wider fits? I assume that fashion follows some sort of logic. I understand the transition from the 80's-90's baggy clothing to slim clothing in the 2010's but I have no idea what would cause a person to de-emphasize their profile. Is there an agreed upon explanation?
goofus
goofus9mo ago
art man, fashion doesn’t follow logic. It’s just about self expression. In my opinion there will always be people trying to conform, and others trying to break away, ebbs and flows
carrion
carrion9mo ago
respectfully, you understand that shift from baggy to slim because it took place in your formative years. Fashion isn't so prescriptive, there's no levels to progress thru, no real endgame. Wide is in rn because it can look good, is comfy, is a different look than what a lot of ppl not plugged into fashion are wearing, etc. From a trend analysis POV you could argue that wide fits are trending at a mainstream level partially as a reaction to the slim (and extra slim) fits of the 2010s, but that's not rly the whole picture. Also lots of ppl want to deemphasize their profile for a lot of varied and valid reasons, but wide fits aren't the only way to do that, and it's not always the reason why someone would prefer a wide fit.
Leit Motif
Leit MotifOP9mo ago
Hmm, I feel that art follows logic such as the golden mean. Maybe not strictly logic, but rather, what are the supporting arguments to this shift. Hmm...you hit on both of my assumptions that it was either reactionary or that it was to purposefully deemphasize profiles. I assumed baggy clothing was the only way to deemphasize a profile and I just couldn't imagine why a person would purposefully sabotage themselves. Perhaps there are other reasons a person would want to do deemphasize their profile and I lack imagination. Actually, you also hit on it being comfortable which makes sense.
jawntanamo_bae
jawntanamo_bae9mo ago
@artvandelayimporting do you follow logic
kyn
kyn9mo ago
deemphasizing your profile doesn’t mean you’re sabotaging yourself, what
artvandelayimporting
Man don’t tag me into q and a threads :xdcrying:
jawntanamo_bae
jawntanamo_bae9mo ago
Forgive me I’d also push back against the assertion that wide fits necessarily deemphasize your profile. The fabric, cut, and drape on so many wide garments definitely don’t
kyn
kyn9mo ago
Yeah like What the hell man
Leit Motif
Leit MotifOP9mo ago
Could someone show me some examples of wide fits not making someone look like a blob? (I am truly trying to understand btw, this is not being said with any kind of glibness). I am just trying to wrap my head around the aesthetic rationale. Just because I can't see it now doesn't mean I can never understand it.
Leit Motif
Leit MotifOP9mo ago
Okay, that one is tame, I would say that's like a "straight fit"?
kyn
kyn9mo ago
Actually anything spaghetti or Coltar or GSH post in waywt Some of what art and bishop post
carrion
carrion9mo ago
inspo pic drop
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kyn
kyn9mo ago
I forgot about that first pic What a blessing
carrion
carrion9mo ago
God never forget
jawntanamo_bae
jawntanamo_bae9mo ago
So so so good
Leit Motif
Leit MotifOP9mo ago
Okay, a lot of these are definitely deconstructing profiles. I will look through these though. I need to learn and I feel like once I can see what people are going for, I can more readily internalize it. Right now I feel as if people legitimately look like children wearing their parent's clothing.
kyn
kyn9mo ago
I am sorry you feel that way
Leit Motif
Leit MotifOP9mo ago
Honestly, thank you everyone for weighing in and providing examples and links. I am going to look through all of them.
kyn
kyn9mo ago
It’s cool that you’re open to input and new perspectives 🙂
zeometer
zeometer9mo ago
personally i think i look better in wider fit vs slimmer fit (see https://discord.com/channels/1116793467654381685/1116800072093532191/1206609376614285433 vs https://discord.com/channels/1116793467654381685/1116800072093532191/1212409944863670342). same starting vibe in both cases (ivy + cool jacket), same amount of formality, but a) wide pleated pants hit the intended aesthetic more and b) the wider pants balance out how large my legs are because #gains
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zeometer
zeometer9mo ago
also as others have said there's a wide range of fits between super slim and super baggy; if your intention is to optimize your fashion it can only benefit you to at least attempt different silhouettes to see which one you enjoy the most. it may be you still like slim fits but at least your view will be anchored by your real, current, tangible experience
justlooking
justlooking9mo ago
used to feel the same way when i started seeing more and more baggy and wide fits becoming popular. i keep myself in good shape and dont mind letting that show by keeping things a little more tailored than what the current trends are. but, as someone mentioned above, there are looser fitting garments in fabrics that drape nicely and dont give the "kid in dad's clothes" vibe. i've picked up some bigger shirts and stuff in the last couple of years and while its still not my favorite style to wear, i have to admit some of them do look good and are still flattering. i guess what im getting at is its possible to still dress well for your body type with a looser fit. the guys on this forum put together some really cool outfits. the comfort thing, i say it depends - a good slim fit item should still be comfortable to wear and not restrictive at all. baggy clothes sometimes feels less comfortable to me with all the extra fabric, but i guess thats a personal thing
Spuck
Spuck9mo ago
Probably in Germany, yes
Leit Motif
Leit MotifOP9mo ago
I love the well thought out response including the comparison picture. I found your wider fit to look more aesthetically pleasing which really helped drive your point. I'm going to try some a more relaxed fit as a baby step and see how it feels. Thanks for addressing the body shape thing. I'm coming from an evolutionary psychology perspective where clothing is one of a myriad mating strategies. It's good to know that it's a gradient and that it's possible for a wider fit to still be flattering.
kyn
kyn9mo ago
If you’re willing to engage with them, BBSP has two really cool pieces on “wide” fits and the perception thereof https://www.blackbirdspyplane.com/p/theres-no-such-thing-as-too-big-pants https://www.blackbirdspyplane.com/p/how-should-pants-fit-now
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kyn
kyn9mo ago
Their prose isn’t for everyone but the content is good (And i contend that even extremely wide fit pants can still be flattering by creating an interesting silhouette or contrast to the top bloc, even if they aren’t “flattering” in the sense that they show of the literal shape of your physical anatomy)
Sal
Sal9mo ago
Maybe a change in perspective is warranted here bud
zeometer
zeometer9mo ago
thank you. if you check some of my earlier posts in #waywt i started out with similar views on slim fit and slowly expanded my range of fits through trial and error and exposure to other people's fits.
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