Reflecting on My Dating Attire
https://alittlebitofrest.com/2024/02/19/what-i-wear-on-dates/
Hi guys! I wrote a blog post as a reflection on my dating attire over the years. TL;DR, i was very aware that my style was bold and possibly alienating (or just not ideal for dating apps as a 20 year old), and i edited myself constantly before eventually being confident in my style.
it also goes into what I currently wear on dates with my girlfriend and it works out despite the disparate levels in our formality (because formality doesn't mean anything to us). Its proof it can happen!
There's a lot of fun photos as well as the companion pod on style & direction! Enjoy! hopefully its interesting and encouraging to some of you!
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lol why did it post the photo twice
fixed it but its somehow even funnier
This is inspirational
I appreciate how you become visibly more comfortable in your outfits as it goes
Thanks @squingo44 ! It probably helped me be more comfortable being myself on dates and also finding someone who will get it from the get go Instead of convince them I’m normal for wearing a suit everyday lol
absolutely, just being yourself is the best filter
I've seen your stuff before, but looking at this post really highlights some great outfits of yours. I'm taking notes
god i want that kapital jacket + pant
also really funny to see all these pics from around my neighborhood lol
It really is crazy how different you look when you're clearly comfortable in your clothes
+ loved how many pics you added throught the article
i love that you are all finding this like 8 months after i wrote it hahah
but yeaha haha i just take pics of wherever i am when i hang out!
Oh haha it just popped to the top of the feed because someone commented