Request missing Genders, Pronouns & Sexualities here
I've just found your Pronouns Bot following the death of the "other one" (it seems, hasnt worked in at least 1.5 weeks).
I'm just getting this setup on my server, had a couple of questions:-
1. Is there a way for the bot to default to this casing "Male" instead of defaulting to lower case of "male" - I know I can go in manually and edit the names of the roles that are created but its a bit of a nuisance
2. Is there a way of restricting people's choices, so that they don't create a new pronoun which is a typing error? for example, someone types "He/Thy" by mistake and it creates a role, can I restrict normal users from adding pronouns/genders/sexualities that haven't already been added by myself?
Thanks in advance ❤️
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Hey, I may can look into it not using lowercase but rather pascal (first latter uppercase), the problem would just be that it may destroy Pronouns on all other guilds based on how it works, the bot searches the role in discord and uses the one who is named the same way, we do not store any role id's anyhow to protect users privacy. And it is not possible for users to misspell (such as
Thy
) as only "approved" pronouns/sexualities/genders can be added, and they (should) be all spelled correctly
And that you want to stop letting user's create new roles, I may add this as a feature today or tomorrow (depending when I have the time for it). Jfyi my time is CETthere we go!
thanks 😄
ah awesome, so they cant misspell (or abuse) the function, that's brilliant, thanks 🙂
I was just worried that people mistype a gender/sexuality/pronoun and it creates roles that are not valid
yup, I can give you a list of all that are allowed if you want
yeah please, your website had a list but I was getting an error message when trying to view it (not sure if you are aware or not)
(the website is a mess)
ah 😛
a list would be great, thank you!
I am honest, it's lazyness
😂 guilty too
while I'm thinking out loud, would it be possible to assign an emoji to a role?
the "Pronoun Picker" bot died 1.5 weeks ago or so, and that had a function where you could assign an emoji for a pronoun, I was thinking of assigning blobs 😄
result:
result:
<:meow_bi:1053672584144765028> for example
result:
(bisexual blob) 🙂
If your server happens to be level 2, you can do that, else if you add in the role name, it breaks as we don't store anything
https://c.lunish.nl/r/j3wjBe.png
spotted a couple of typos btw, "gxpression" and "gntersex"
I don't know how to spell them correctly honestly, I did not add these lol
ah fair enough, I'll just do it server side 🙂
oh I see 😄 should be "gender expression" and "intersex" I think 😄
thanks for your help 💪
no problem, I thank you too :)
oh, one more questions sorry, as an admin can I set other peoples sexualities/genders/pronouns for them ?
Just give them the role

on their behalf, some people cant get their head round the commands so I like to do it for them
ah yeah, I'll just do it that way then 🙂
👍 thanks
np
\O/
I upload a fix for the typos (lol)
@Pronouns eval require(
../config
).Genders.join(,
)result:
@Simmy^
thanks, this one is still wrong I think
gender gxpression should be gender expression
@Luna ^
meant to ask one last thing, is there a way of having the bot giving buttons for people to press to do this as well?
a bit like how the "other" bot did it:-

(can remove the image if u want)
that would be a really good option
my other bot uses that approach lol (https://discord.com/channels/828676951023550495/828677566150737981/1028636517733765243), but it's limited to just that what you see there in terms of buttons, the message is completely customizable tho (and it syncs the selection between guilds);
but it doesn't do genders or sexualities
it's kinda hard to make a select menu or button for @Pronouns based on the amount
discord limits us to max 5 buttons in each row and 5 rows, which means max 25 buttons
@Pronouns eval require(
../config
).Genders.length + require(../config
).Pronouns.length + require(../config
).Sexualities.lengthresult:
and we would need that many buttons^
(blame discord on those limits)
ah I see :S
maybe it could be done with the most common ones, and if the button isn't there they can use the manual command 😮
dont worry if not, it's a "nice to have" not an absolute necessity
yeah I know, I'm just thinking a bit about it how I could do it that it is, well, usable
good question 🤔
^ perhaps like this, but three outputs, so one with a max of 25 buttons for gender, another message output with 25 buttons (most common) for sexualities and another output for 25 most common pronouns
something like /display genders
👀
hm maybe, I will try something like that tomorrow after work
yeah awesome, thanks, I'll check back here, thanks again for your help 🙂
will see what progress (if any) tomorrow 😄
alright and np :)
🙂
just going back to this for a moment, would be great if you can use pascal please, or set the bot so that when it looks for an existing role that it isnt casing specific (so it detects "Male" instead of only "male")
I have a bunch of different roles on the server and they are all with pascal casing, so to have these new roles in lowercase only looks weird 🙂
It doesn't care about casing at all anymore

hmm
did you update that a short time ago? because I added my gender earlier, renamed it from male to Male, and then someone else added "Male" and it didn't assign him to the existing now "Male" it created "male" role as well
I did update that 3 minutes ago
lol
ahhhhhhh
awesome, thank you, that saves a lot of hassle 😄
np
okay, I've implemented the bot on the server, someone has said there's a missing sexuality
"biromantic"
could you add it please? ❤️
WebMD
What Does Biromantic Mean?
Being biromantic means you are romantically attracted to people of two specific and distinct gender identities. Learn more about biromanticism and what it means in relationships.
also people dont seem to be able to set the "any" pronoun
it asks them to separate with a /
"Please saperate your pronouns using a /" when they use
by the way, there's a typo, should be "separate" not "saperate" 🙂
hope I'm not being a pain
feedback (I'm an admin of a server with 900+ people)
"wondering if questioning and aromantic could be in the sexuality category please"

All fine lol
it’s nearly 9pm for me atm so I’ll work tmr on it
yeah no problem, I've asked them to wait
I figured out that people have to put "Any/Any" to add the Any pronoun
all/any
would work thookay, I think some people got confused because they thought they could just put "Any" 🙂
any
, ask
, all
can be used without a /
nowhello, how are you? thank you for updating those 🙂 are you able to add "questioning, aromantic, biromantic" to the sexualities list please?
I'm okey, just sleepy from the day lol, and I Just added those
haha yeah, sleepy too 😄 I'm in England 🙂 at least we can relax over Christmas a bit
awesome, thanks for adding those! 🤘
ah well I'm in Austria/Vienna
ah nice!
🎵 OHHHHHH VIENNAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA 🎵
(Ultravox - Vienna reference) 😂
lol
thanks again for adding these things, shall I use this existing topic thread to flag up anything else? 🙂
or it's okay for me to drop you a DM? 🙂
I don't really mind
alright great 🙂 thanks
@Luna Merry Christmas to you, when you can over the next days please add the following sexuality:-
"queerplatonic"
thank you, you too :)
and I added it
great, thank you!
np
@Simmy I have fixed the website (more or less) https://prns.waya.one
Pronouns, Sexualities, Genders for Discord
Let your community describe themself with a wide variety of supported Pronouns, Sexualities and Genders.
awesome, thanks 🙂
np
I know I'm hijacking a thread a bit, but thought that might be better than starting a new one - can we add "panromantic" to the list of sexualities, please? And thank you for this bot, it's lovely!
all fine, sure
Thank you so much!
@Pronouns eval require(
../config
).Sexualities.includes(panromantic
)result:
there you go
Thank you so so so much!
np, you are welcome
@Luna hello hello 🙂 want me to rename this thread so people can post here to add Pronouns and Sexualities if they request missing ones? 🙂 perhaps
up to you
🙂
@Luna good evening 🙂 please could you change Gender fluid to Genderfluid? it should be one word 🙂
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Genderfluid
Gender Wiki
Genderfluid
Genderfluid is a gender identity which refers to a gender that varies over time. This can be occasionally, every month, every week, everyday, to even every few moments a day depending upon the person. Sometimes it is consistent and sometimes it is not. A genderfluid person's gender may change dramatically, delicately, rapidly, or slowly also dep...
someone reported it to me, so just passing it on 🙂
I’m not 100% sure as it could break with existing roles, but i’ll look into it, thanks :)
yeah 😬
no worries
thanks again for the bot, people are loving it
np haha